Love the Life you Live, Live the Life you Love

I decided today I absolutely LOVE huge acts of compassion - when some one goes ALL out to show they really, truly and absolutely care - or at the very least they want to make you feel really special. They meticulously plan something especially for you, like a surprise party, or they buy a huge, perfect gift that costs hundreds of dollars, or they bring you to a super nice dinner that cost more than working twelve hours at a job like Citysports. Whatever it is, you know they put a ton of effort into just for you. And that feels great. After all, as wonderful as you are, you deserve it =) Yes, I absolutely LOVE times like this. It feels nice to be blown off my rocker. But what I love even more, and what I've been seeing more and more lately, is random, small acts of kindness that come completely out of nowhere and put that huge, hanger mouth smile on my face. Such as when your best friend hides a good luck note for nationals in your transition bag Such as when your boyfriend walks ...

The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts.....The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do, is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny....it Is the light that guides your way. -Heraclitus I'm a firm believer that belittling another is the single-most condescending action a person can do and is nothing more than a direct reflection on how that person feels about him or herself. With that in mind, if you find yourself degrading someone else...and even have the nerve to write it, anonymously, to them..I suggest you take a look in the mirror and contemplate exactly why you felt the need to express that in the first place. I highly doubt they even asked your opinion, because if you were a decent human being you wouldn't have written in anonymously and, actually now that I think about it, you wouldn't have written it at all. I have absolutely no respect for those who choose to bring themselves up by putting oth...